Wednesday, October 31, 2007

What would Grandma want?

Yesterday was a nice, slow introduction to working on a house. Today was serious business. I didn’t know that I could caulk so much that my fingers would hurt for the rest of the day.  I also didn’t know that I would get a little obsessive once I started painting. Okay, maybe I knew that but anyway…
Today was stinkin hot, I saw a huge roach that just refused to die (followed me through two rooms and a hallway before it gave up the fight), and while I was pointing out the big dog next door, Dale helpfully pointed out the big dog a couple of feet from us. Only it was not a dog, it was a rat. Yes, it was a RAT-rat, not a ratty mouse. I did not squeal when I saw said RAT, but when I did pick up the huge cockroach that I thought was dead, and it creepy-crawled on my hand, I made enough noise that Tyler came running. I haven’t seen a roach since I was a kid- I forgot that they can survive even a nuclear blast!!!!
Enough of that drama- we actually got a lot accomplished today. Dale’s mantra was “what would Grandma want?”, which might sound funny, but thinking about what my Mema would want really made those baseboards, trim, and doors matter. Dale straightened a couple of crookedly hung doors and got closet doors started, Tyler continued to work on knockdown texture and ceilings, Katie cut tile and worked on getting it set up as a backsplash, Bob worked on the floors and that weird pesky hole in the ceiling, and I was kind of like Forrest Gump. Only instead of running, I painted. and painted. and painted. and painted.
We worked so hard today that I am three-hundred and fifty different kinds of tired, and am the last one awake. Tomorrow is another early start, and hopefully we will do work that would make Grandmas and Mema proud! 
Typing seems to be aggravating an old caulking injury, so I think that I will sign off until tomorrow-Good night!
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Tuesday, October 30, 2007

Just off of normal

Up early, toolbelts on, releases and other legal forms in hand, lunches packed, and we are off to our official orientation by seven-thirty. One hour of orientation that opens our eyes to how much still needs to be done. Our nation seems to have gone on, with a commemorative event here and there, broadcasts about New Orleans every so often, but not too much anymore. This area is still hurting so bad, but one would scarcely know it unless they come here!

According to UMCOR, fourteen thousand homes were destroyed when Lake Pontchartrain surged. The population here dwindled by two-thirds that first year after Katrina. Talk of ‘the storm’ is as commonplace amongst people here as talk of the weather is for us at home. Thousands of jobs disappeared overnight, many forever. Suicide rates skyrocketed, and the death rate among the elderly went up five times over. As if things couldn’t get worse, the population has surged beyond the imagination as people who have been unable to move back to New Orleans have settled here in Slidell instead, taxing an already overtaxed infrastructure.

The shining light in all of this is the faith-based initiatives. UMCOR works with over thirty other faith-based groups to directly help people without getting mired in red tape. Five hundred houses are scheduled to be completed by this organization alone by the beginning of 2008. Couple that with the fact that it is thanks to volunteer sweat equity, and you have little miracles happening here everyday!!

After our orientation, we are able to go to our project, a small house in what looks like a quiet neighborhood. Louisiana is truly a stunning place, huge trees and blue skies. This particular neighborhood seems like it could be anywhere, with Halloween pumpkins and lawn decorations. But when we look a little closer, the signs were there. A mile high tree snapped in half, metal hanging off of the side of a neighbor’s workshop. A huge pile of what used to be the interior of the house stacked in the front yard. A FEMA trailer across the street in a front yard. Quiet except for the sounds of construction.  Everything just off of what normal should be. 

Our job is ‘finish work’, which is actually a pretty generic term for lots of small jobs. Bob is patching odd holes in ceilings (very odd holes). Tyler is doing knockdown texture in a back utility room. Dale is finishing trimwork in the bedrooms, and teaching Katie and I to use a miter saw (visions of all of the crown moulding and chair rails I can do are dancing in my head!!). And let’s just say that Katie and I are both quite adept at caulking and trimwork now. Katie is also the established peacemaker, which is truly a gift to have! Tyler is the hardest worker that I have ever seen- I am tired just thinking about how hard he works! Dale is the teacher, albeit the teacher with a wicked sense of humor. Bob is the foreman, since he has been through this a few times already- the man knows the ropes! And me,  I will let you know when I figure that one out, but I can caulk a mean straight line!!! Hopefully our finish work will enable this house to be closer to being a home again soon.

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Sunday, October 28, 2007

God moment

Each and every Sunday, we have time for people to share God moments at church. Someone usually does, and I always breathe a sigh of relief because while I may have a lot of Moments with God, please do not make me get up and share them in FRONT of people. Today was a continuous God moment for me from the time I awoke. Well, from the time that I finished my first cup of coffee.

First though, a confession. When I was able to spend the night with my sister en route to Louisiana, she told me that she was so amazed that I was going on a mission trip. “Why?” I asked. Silly me, I was thinking that she meant because I have two children, responsibilities, a life, yadayadayada….

“Don’t you remember one of the mission trips you took to Mexico when you were in high school?” Cindy asked.

“Of course! They were awesome!”

“No-that’s not what I mean. I mean when you called Mom and cried because they were really making you work. Really work…”

I went into little sister argue mode, “I did NOT!!!”

“Did too!”

Hmmm, actually, I think I probably did call and cry. I can picture my big-haired teenager self being totally worried about my tan or my nails instead of bricks and mortar. But I did work, and I do remember some amazing things about those times. Holding the baby of the house, Luis, and making him giggle. Playing soccer with neighborhood kids in the street. Papas Fritas at the host church with friends and soon to be friends. And getting so much spiritually when I had come with the intent to give (minus the whole breaking a nail thing).

That is the really cool thing about mission work. When we truly give, we are so richly rewarded in ways that we cannot even fathom. God takes care of us as we take care of other people. The church family that we are tied into in Slidell just went to Greensboro, Kansas to help rebuild after the massive tornado that literally leveled that town. A group is slated to arrive from California to help rebuild in two weeks.  Not only are they from California, but they are from the areas affected by the wildfires. Some people might question why people wouldn’t stay in their own backyards and just help there. Why we wouldn’t just send the money. Dale, the head of UMCOR (United Methodist Church Organization and Recovery), makes the point very clearly that sending money is not enough,  but sending people is the single most important part of long term disaster recovery. There are literally NOT people to pay to rebuild, so money would just sit. Volunteers, however, move- physically move as the hands and feet of Christ. Pretty powerful incentive to keep coming back, huh?

Big God Moment- Worshipping with First Christian Church in Slidell. We were invited to join in a bible study- “You can’t take it with you”, based upon Luke 12:13-31. This is the parable of a wealthy man storing and storing his riches so that he may sit back and enjoy. Jesus rebukes him, tells him that God takes care of even the sparrow, that one cannot take their riches with them when they go. That is an amazing lesson for me when we are twenty-some odd hours from home in a place where even two years later, people are left with so much pain and loss. We are not supposed to worry about keeping what we have, storing it up. We are supposed to be the hands and feet of God, and let him take care of the other stuff.

God Moment Number Two- Sunday Services at First Christian Church in Slidell. Susan made me want to be a Baptist so that we could hear a sermon until two or three in the afternoon! The music made Dale dance- we even had someone ask how they could convince him to stay in Slidell. Don’t worry though- I promise that we are bringing Dale home. That church was the very example of what a church should be- you could feel the love emanating from the entire place.

God Moment Number Three- Coming ‘home’ to the Presbyterian Church, and finding some really great bunkmates from  Village Pres near Kansas City, Kansas. Meeting seven more people who have driven FOREVER to get here and still are so excited is a very cool experience. Even more important is the fact that they were respectfully subdued as the Rockies lost later in the evening.

God Moment Number Four- Five of us went grocery shopping and lived to tell the tale. Let’s just say that Bob and Tyler have one idea about food, Katie and I have quite another, and Dale will just be happy with anything. We were probably a sight to see as we put things in a cart, took them out, exchanged them for something else, snuck a butternut squash in, only to have it replaced by Nutter Butters… but I am not bitter!

I could blather on about all sorts of moments, but I am now going to have a moment of sleep…

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Camelias and camels

Slidell, we have arrived! Over twelve hundred miles, umpteen hours, and some very bad coffee, and here we are. Louisiana is absolutely beautiful, tall old trees towering up in the sky, water here and there, but  I can only imagine the devastation here two years ago. Places that we can now drive through were underwater, buildings that look so normal now were missing entire walls and sides. We are fortunate to be staying in the Presbyterian Church here, as they are equipped to handle us (does that mean we are high maintenance?!). Funny how this community seems to have truly banded together- denominations matter very little. What matters is faith in action.

After unpacking our boat-van, we met four members from the local Disciples Church at an amazing place called Camelia’s Cafe. Dale amazed everyone by not only ordering oysters on the half shell, but enjoying them to boot (he was nice enough to share with those of us who truly like them!). What better way to soothe tired souls than with soft shell crabs, crawdads, shrimp, raw oysters, crab bisque, sweet potato fries…. A couple of hours later and some of us are going to collapse into our bunkbeds, and the rest are going to watch the World Series. Tomorrow will be a jam -packed day, starting early with Sunday School and not stopping until we can again collapse into our bunks.

Oh, and I stand corrected- there are indeed camels in Texas. Located on a farm called ‘Texotics’, camels roam with emus, zebras, and animals my kids would know the name of, but not I. Camels also have quite a thing for Nilla Wafers, as long as they can wrestle the cookies away from Bob and Tyler.
 

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Saturday, October 27, 2007

Are we there yet?

Twenty-one hours after my head came off the pillow, and I am still going. We got a late start this morning (Thank you for the send-off, guys!), and proceeded to have a pretty entertaining twelve hour trip. Six hundred and ninety miles gave me a lot of time to learn some interesting facts, such as:

There are no camels in between Colorado and Fort Worth.

One can never have too much coffee.

That being said, bathroom breaks are not just for little kids.

The squishy seat in the back is actually the best seat.

Flies really enjoy reststops.

There is a coffee table book waiting to be written about our nation’s rest stops, whether it be entitled ’scratch and sniff’ or ‘in the can’.

Bob and Dale can be quite entertaining with their verbal sparring.

Twelve hours of it can make me a little giggly.

The difference between zenith and zephyr (look it up!)- but let’s just suffice to say, if I aspire to meet my zephyr, I might be a little disappointed!

You can get a body piercing and a taco in the same place right by the university church.

Being in a van with ten days worth of stuff and five people feels a little like being packed onto a boat out at sea.

I really need to learn more than the three Keb Mo songs that have been stuck in my head for the last twelve hours.

Four more hours until we get up and begin the same thing again tomorrow… hopefully with as much humor and PATIENCE as today!

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Friday, October 26, 2007

lack of sleep

I am writing this on lack of sleep- complete lack of sleep. Is it because I have gotten so much accomplished, and just did not have time for sleep? No-trust me, I always have time for sleep. No- I stayed up getting packed (night before finals cram session, remember?), watched TV, did laundry, finished bags for N’s Halloween party, and collapsed into bed.

About an hour later  I heard a loud thunk, followed by exactly twelve quieter thunks which would be N jump-falling out of bed, navigating stairs and coming to my side of the bed. When I felt his hot gargamel breath on my face, I opened my eyes. N was staring at me, with his face about an inch from mine, and said “be careful on your trip Mommy.”

Well, how can you tell a sweet little guy like that to go back to his own bed? Especially when he is wearing striped footed flannel jammies? So into my bed piles N, and out the window goes any chance of sleep. I have been out of bed since two-fifty five, and think this should be an interesting day.  Interesting in that I really value sleep, and really dislike a lack of it. Having G, who believed sleep was for the weak,  go four years without sleeping through the night, made me value sleep like I value air, water…

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Thursday, October 25, 2007

Loo-eeez-eee-anna

Okay, Maybe my kids are getting the whole mission trip thing on their own levels. N keeps getting confused on the location part. He keeps talking about when I go to Alaska on my mission trip, when I go to Mexico on my mission trip… Yes, N, I would love to go to any of those places (Africa first, though!), but we are going to Loo-eeez-eee-anna. He does get what a mission trip is though (proud moment here!!!!)- he told us very matter of factly that a mission trip is when you go help people that really need help, and that is what we are doing! Couldn’t have said it better myself.

I am also like a college kid the night before finals. No, I am not hanging out at a bar or a frat house, but I am evading actually getting on task and packing. Baking cookies, making treat bags for N and G’s halloween parties, laundry, painting, blogging, whatever, I simply cannot get down to the nitty-gritty of packing. I will be cramming about midnight, but still no bars or frat houses!

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If you give a girl some coffee

Tomorrow at this time, my bleary-eyed, coffee clutching self will be on the road with four other people for over twelve hours. Word of warning, I am always sleepy for the first leg of a trip. This is not problematic unless I am expected to be the first driver- then it is like the kid’s book “If you give a mouse a cookie”. First I need a cup of coffee, doctored up because it is probably from a gas station. Then I need napkins, because there will be a mess from all of the doctoring of said coffee. Then there’s the need for gum, because of the ensuing coffee-dragon breath. Then I will need a trash can or trash bag of some sort because everyone knows there is nothing worse than old,stale gum. Then I will not be chewing on anything, so I will need more coffee…. So if you are reading this, Bob, I should not be the first driver! 

My kids have both seemed quiet oblivious about the trip until now. ‘Mission Trip’ must sound like grown up blather to both of them, but I have been trying to prep them for the long absence. N has been walking around saying “louisiana, Lew-eeezeee-ana, lu-weezanya, loo…” The child has a wonderful twang for someone born and raised  not in Texas. He knows only that it is farther than Texas, which is enough for his eyes to grow big with disbelief. Farther than Texas- that is to the moon for a five-year-old. G has been acting like it is no big thing- she is way too cool to act like I might be missed. She tripped up though, because her friends have said, “Wow- you are going to Louisiana for ten whole days!” So no matter how nonchalant she is acting with me, I know that she is thinking about it and talking to her friends about it. Probably during something important like math or science. Or history. Or reading.

 

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Wednesday, October 24, 2007

Hammers and Toolbelts

I cannot believe that in three days, I will be on my way to Slidell, Louisiana. The group and I met tonight and found out our official ‘task’. I was really scared that it would be something waaay over my head, but we are doing finish work on a house. Now that I can handle. Trim, paint, drywall- finish work sounds somewhat doable to me. Learning an entirely new skill might be a lot of fun for me, but not so much for the people whose house I would be learning on.
Our list of things to take is three pages long. I am thinking that I should probably start on that tomorrow. Laughed out loud when I saw tool belt and hammer because I actually have those. Of course the only reason that I have those is because of my friend Cindy deciding that I needed something to hold my hammer after I hit myself in the head with one.
I can kind of be a girlie-girl, and didn’t think that I needed a toolbelt to simply hang twelve pictures in a grid over my fireplace. If they can do it in heels on HGTV, surely I don’t need a toolbelt, right?  So I keep placing the hammer on the mantel as I go up and down the ladder, measuring and hanging, measuring and hanging… With the eleventh picture, I go to move the ladder, and realize that said hammer isn’t on the mantel but on top of the moving ladder. The claw immediately connected with my nose, I thought curse words, but managed not to shout them only because G was having her very first play date with a sweet girl from school. I spent the next few minutes holding my nose together, trying to work up the courage to call this new friend’s mother and explain that while I was responsible for her child, I had managed to split my nose open with a hammer. Nice, huh? (amazingly, we are all still friends, but that is another story…). Cindy came over, laughed with me, tried not to look horrified when the emergency room doctor stuck a needle in my nose, and stitched my nose up with very bright, very blue stitches. Try being vain with that in the middle of your nose!
I did get a very nice toolbelt with a smaller scale hammer in it for Christmas, with the idea that maybe I won’t hurt myself as badly with a more feminine hammer?!?  I also never got around to hanging up that twelfth picture before we moved out of that house- there was just a big blank spot that made me laugh when I thought about it. Okay, maybe I didn’t laugh at first, but eventually…
So I will be getting my toolbelt, hammer, carpenter pencils, screwdrivers, etc. out tomorrow, and hope that Bob doesn’t read this and decide that maybe I should steer clear of Louisiana. And if you do read this, Bob, I have truly learned my lesson about putting hamers in stupid places. I have also learned real life is never as easy as they make it look on HGTV. I promise. 
 
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Tuesday, October 23, 2007

Pocket Prayers

I am always quoting these prayers to my friends, MOPS group, bible study, anyone who is breathing, but I never actually quote the entire prayers. Besides bible verses and the twenty-third psalms, these sustain me so here goes. I hope that someone else loves them as much as I do!

Lord, unwrinkle my tired soul
unsnarl my garbled thoughts and words
unwind my gnarled nerves
and let me relax in Thee.
-Marion Wright Edelman

Dear Lord, I need your peace today.
I have crooked places that need to be made
straight and rough places that need to be smoothed.
I’m facing mountains I cannot climb and valleys
I cannot cross. I need help. I release into your hands
all the worries and anxieties and struggles of life.
-Dr. Suzan D. Johnson Cook

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